Like many dating relationships, Jayme and Troys became intimate with little or no thought about commitment or how either of them would be affected when it ended.
We can blame Troy for being a jerk, but lets ask ourselves a question.
Whats really the point of most dating relationships?
Often dating encourages intimacy for the sake of intimacy two people getting close to each other without any real intention of making a long-term commitment.
) The shopper who has chosen a swerving cart can have no peace.
Every maneuver, from turning down the cereal aisle to gliding alongside the meat section, becomes a battle-the shoppers will pitted against the carts.
Even though theyd never physically gone beyond a kiss, Jayme had completely given her heart and emotions to Troy.
But by far the worst kind of cart you could pick is the swerver. (And, much to our dismay and embarrassment, it too often succeeds!
When I was a kid, my mom taught me two rules of grocery shopping.
First, never shop when youre hungry everything will look good and youll spend too much money. Ive got the first rule down, but I havent had much success with that second rule.
Despite the narrow aisles and glass shelves laden with delicate dishes, this person is expected to navigate the rows with a cart known to go off course? Yet this is exactly what we try in many of our relationships.
We see the failed attempts around us, but we refuse to replace this cart called dating.