Buddhism and dating dating difference
“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” ~Unknown I’m all too aware that dating can feel like a grinding, painful roller coaster to nowhere.If you’ve hit your head against the wall as many times as I have, you know how frustrating, depressing, and downright disheartening it can be.For whatever reason, you were not right for someone else. It is easy to get hung up on the “whys” behind their decision, but dwelling on them doesn’t change the reality.If you aren’t right for someone else, they aren’t right for you.
When I stopped hanging so much of my feelings on these experiences, I started meeting completely different people than ever before.
I could either continue to view my dating experiences as abysmal failures that reflected poorly upon my self-worth and keep letting my self-esteem circle the drain.
Or, I could manage my attitudes about my relationships in general and take a whole different approach to dating.
Here is how I stopped the painful experience of getting my self-worth tied up in my dating experiences.
Rather than looking for your other half and staying off balance, you must believe that you are worthy and whole right now.